The Cheat and the Cheated



Posted: Saturday, December 26, 2009

by Norman Csarni
Build My Marriage

Have you seen the TV episode, Cheaters? The show investigates cheats upon one of the partner's request. The TV host, few TV production cameraman, and private investigators rigidly follow the cheating experience. They record all events in video and audio. They then show the records and ask confirmation to the person who requested investigation. Upon confirmation, the show sets to meet (and air) the cheat, the mistress and the spouse altogether in one place. The endings were often confrontational, violent, and sad. Worst, relationships were permanently broken and never restored, as the show hopes to achieve.

Cheating your spouse really destroys relationship, especially marriages. Cheating practices all the real blocks to marriage-no commitment, no love, self-centeredness, dishonesty, unfaithfulness. That is why cheating often ends up confrontational, violent, and sad and permanently breaks relationships. Cheating marriage is seriously critical especially when the extra affair is long and sexual.

Cheating marriage, like any forms of cheating, creates unreal married life. Cheating marriage has different forms and degrees. The most popular is adultery. However, it is not the only way of cheating marriage.

Being dishonest and not open are also ways of cheating marriage. Dishonesty itself is cheating marriage because it creates lies. You cheat when you lie. You still cheat when you are dishonest even if you love your spouse. Lying to earn love from your spouse is cheating marriage.

Though some people considered cheating marriage an extraordinary skill, it still destroys marriage and family. Some would even declare cheating marriage is a spice to marriages. You and your spouse could spice your marriage without cheating. Spices can purely be clean fun.

Just remember when you courted your spouse. You definitely had fun together before without cheating. You missed each other even when you saw each other every day and not dated other person.

 

"Keep your ring and be Always
Happily Married! It is not only easier; it is what you pledged to and
be celebrated" -
Norman  Csarni -  Founder of Build My Marriage
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